Cherelle Neille is a single mother, working as a shop assistant and living in Manchester. And she says she’s too beautiful to get a boyfriend.
She sympatizes with the rest of us, saying: "I
feel as though plain Janes have it easier because men will actually get
to know their personality as their looks are merely average. Whereas,
for me, it's always the wrong attention, they never want to know me as a
person. Plain girls end up with the long lasting relationships and I'm
the one kissing all the frogs."
But despite calling other girls
“plain,” she insists she’s lovely: "I am sick of people assuming I am
nasty when I am really a lovely person. My looks attract the wrong guys
and it has been really hard, now I am completely over men."
said men assume she’s vain: "They continually think just because I'm
good looking, I am going to be rude or stuck up. They say to me "you
think you are too good-looking don't you?" - which is ridiculous.
said it’s the men with the problem: "Whenever I am on a date, they only
care about what I look like, they never even listen to what I am
saying. My last boyfriend just paraded me around to his friends and only
cared about having his photo taken with me. No man I've met so far is
ever actually interested in having a conversation with me."
added it can get a bit awkward on dates: "This one time when I was on a
date, I remember something had happened in the news that day. I was
sharing my view on the event, and this guy was not listening in the
slightest. He kept telling me I was pretty and wasn't listening, I then
said thank you, and carried on asking him what he thought of it. He
didn't care and kept talking about my looks and in the end he hadn't
listened to a word I was saying."
But it hasn’t just impacted her
love life. Neille said: "Girls are jealous too, I only really have one
friend. There was this one time I was clubbing with my friend and when
we were in the bathroom, loads of girls I didn't know were complimenting
me, my hair and my looks. Then suddenly my friend walked out and left
the club, and she hasn't talked to me since. If I see a pretty girl I
will definitely tell them every time what I love about them, it's nice
to be nice. I just don't associate myself with many girls as friends