"She looked absolutely beautiful, just like she always did in life"
When Russell Davison’s wife Wendy died after a 10-year battle with cervical cancer, he knew exactly what he wanted to do.
Instead
of handing her body over to a funeral director and a mortuary, he chose
to spend six days with her body in the couple’s family home.
Russell said he washed and dressed Wendy’s body, placing her body in a coffin, or “cocoon” as he puts it, in their bedroom. “Wendy
died very peacefully, fully sedated, in no pain in mine and Dylan’s
arms with our ever faithful dog Elvis snuggled up right next to her
too,” Russell said.
"She looked absolutely beautiful, just like she always did in life: no effort, no make-up, just radiant beauty.
"We have been fooled by TV and films into thinking there is something
to be scared about with dead bodies – there is not, I can assure you."
Wendy was diagnosed with cervical cancer just after the couple celebrated a joint 40th birthday in 2006.
Three
years ago, she was told she had six months to live. Instead of seeking
further treatment, the couple chose to spend her last months travelling
around Europe in a caravan.
In September last year, Wendy and
Russell returned to Britain as her pain became unbearable. She was
determined to die in her own home, and was nursed by her family until her death on April 21.
Russell
said keeping his 50-year-old wife's body at home helped their children -
Wendy's sons Luke and Dylan and Russell's sons Benjamin and Dominic -
come to terms with the loss of their mother. "For a long time I
have been determined to have Wendy at home when she died. I did not
want her in the mortuary or handed over to a funeral director, I wanted
us to take care of her ourselves at our family home, and have her in our
bedroom so I could sleep in the same room," he said. "The
idea of her being taken away in a plastic body bag hours after death is
so alien to us all now we really don’t think we could have taken it."
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